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Words that say it

Wedding Ceremony Readings, Poems, Quotes & Scripture

Wedding ceremony readings can add meaning, personality, and emotion to your ceremony. The right words can say something about love, commitment, and marriage that you feel deeply but find hard to put into words yourselves.

A bridesmaid reading to the guests at an outdoor wedding ceremony

Your reading does not have to be something traditionally associated with weddings. It might be a favorite poem, a passage from literature, a spiritual reflection, scripture, or another sacred writing. It could even be a few carefully chosen words with special meaning in your relationship.

The important question is not, “What are we supposed to read at a wedding?” It is, “What words say something we want to express on our wedding day?”

Apart from the welcoming words, this part of the ceremony is a wonderful opportunity for creativity and imagination. Consider whether the officiant will speak the words, the groom, the bride, the mother or father of the bride or groom, or an honored member of those gathered. This is your chance to set a tone that reflects the character, values and relationships of the two of you.

There are many authors and poets whose gift is to eloquently express what we feel. Use the opportunity to share the words of poets with your partner. It will make the ceremony even more meaningful, because you will both have had the chance to absorb the deeper meaning of the words. I encourage you to search widely and often for selections that speak to you in a way that will meaningfully communicate to those gathered.

While some elements of the ceremony are more traditional or prescriptive, this is the time for tasteful self expression. Have fun!

This section can be of strong religious significance, or it can hold a more universal tone. Spirituality is different from religion and reflects those elements of life that are common to all people. These include hope, joy, love, belonging, relatedness and purpose. Choosing words that express these things acknowledges that we are created beyond the confines of our physical being.

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The quick version

  • Pick words that say something you want to express on your wedding day, not just what you’re supposed to read.
  • Your reading can be a poem, literature, scripture, or a few carefully chosen words of your own.
  • Ask yourselves if it sounds like you, fits the tone of your ceremony, and is the right length.
  • A reading does not need to be long to be memorable.
  • This is the time for tasteful self expression, so have fun!

This is your chance to set a tone that reflects the character, values and relationships of the two of you.

How to choose a wedding ceremony reading

Begin with what you want the reading to contribute. Do you want it to express the depth of your love? Say something about the commitment you are making? Reflect your faith? Honor family or tradition? Or simply capture something about the two of you and the life you hope to share?

As you look at different readings, ask yourselves:

  1. Does this sound like us?

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    Choose words that reflect your personalities, values, and relationship rather than something simply because it is popular at weddings.

Does it fit the tone of our ceremony?

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A formal religious ceremony may call for something quite different from an informal outdoor celebration.

  • Will our guests understand why we chose it?

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    The best readings often mean something to the people gathered with you, not only to the couple.

  • Who should read it?

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    A parent, grandparent, sibling, close friend, or other important person can make a reading even more meaningful.

  • Is it the right length?

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    A reading does not need to be long to be memorable. A few carefully chosen lines can say exactly what you want.

    There is no single perfect wedding reading. The best choice is one that feels natural in your ceremony and helps express your love and the commitment you are making to each other.

    Your reading is one part of the words that shape your ceremony. You may also want to see wedding vows examples and wording as you think about the promises you will make.

    Questions to help you choose

    To see how your reading fits into the whole ceremony, read the complete wedding ceremony script guide.

    The best choice is one that feels natural in your ceremony and helps express your love and the commitment you are making to each other.

    Wedding ceremony reading examples

    Below is a collection of wedding ceremony readings, including timeless poetry, spiritual writings, scripture, and meaningful quotes. They are meant to inspire you. As you read, notice which words resonate and match the tone you want for your ceremony.

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    Poetry readings for your wedding ceremony

    Sonnet 116, by William Shakespeare

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    A timeless reflection on enduring love

    Best for: Couples who value commitment, enduring love, and the idea of standing together through life’s changes.

    Why it works: This classic sonnet speaks to the constancy of true love. It’s especially meaningful for couples who see marriage as a lasting commitment that endures through time, change, and circumstance.

    Let me not to the marriage of true minds admit impediments.
    Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds,
    or bends with the remover to remove:

    Oh, no! It is an ever-fixed mark.
    That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
    it is the star to every wandering bark,
    whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.

    Love’s not Time’s fool,
    though rosy lips and cheeks within his bending sickle’s compass come;
    love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
    but bears it out even to the edge of doom.

    If this be error and upon me proved,
    I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

    Sonnet 18, by William Shakespeare

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    A poetic celebration of love and beauty

    Best for: Couples looking for a romantic, elegant reading that celebrates the beauty of the person they love.

    Why it works: Shakespeare compares the beloved to a summer’s day, then suggests that their beauty will live on through his words. It’s a lyrical choice for couples who want a classic reading that feels romantic, poetic and timeless.

    Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
    Thou art more lovely and more temperate:

    Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
    And summer’s lease hath all too short a date;

    Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
    And often is his gold complexion dimm'd;

    And every fair from fair sometime declines,
    By chance or nature’s changing course untrimm'd;

    But thy eternal summer shall not fade,
    Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow’st;

    Nor shall death brag thou wander’st in his shade,
    When in eternal lines to time thou grow’st:

    So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
    So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

    Romeo and Juliet, by William Shakespeare

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    A passionate expression of romantic love

    Best for: Couples who are drawn to expressive, poetic language and want to capture the excitement and intensity of falling deeply in love.

    Why it works: These excerpts capture the wonder and emotional intensity of young love. The first expresses Romeo’s amazement when he sees Juliet, while the second captures his longing and fascination as he watches her from below her balcony.

    Together, they offer a dramatic and unmistakably romantic choice for couples who enjoy Shakespeare and want a reading filled with passion and poetic imagery.

    Excerpt 1 – Love at First Sight (Act I, Scene V)

    O, she doth teach the torches to burn bright!
    It seems she hangs upon the cheek of night
    Like a rich jewel

    Did my heart love till now? Forswear it, sight!
    For I ne’er saw true beauty till this night.

    Excerpt 2 – The Balcony Scene (Act II, Scene II)

    But soft! What light through yonder window breaks?
    It is the East and Juliet is the sun!

    See how she leans her cheek upon her hand!

    O that I were a glove upon that hand,
    That I might touch that cheek!

    How Do I Love Thee? by Elizabeth Barrett Browning

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    A classic expression of deep and enduring love

    Best for: Couples who want a romantic, traditional reading that expresses the depth and constancy of love.

    Why it works: Browning describes love as something that reaches into every part of life—freely given, deeply felt, and enduring. Its emotional warmth and familiar opening make it a beautiful choice for a traditional or romantic wedding ceremony.

    How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.

    I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
    My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
    For the ends of Being an Ideal Grace.

    I love thee to the level of every day’s
    Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
    I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
    I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.

    I love thee with the passion put to use
    In my old grief’s, and with my childhood’s faith.

    I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
    With my lost saints,–I love thee with the breath,
    Smiles, tears, of all my life!– and, if God choose,
    I shall but love thee better after death.

    To My Dear and Loving Husband, by Anne Bradstreet

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    A heartfelt expression of enduring married love

    Best for: Couples looking for a traditional reading that speaks directly about the depth and devotion of married love.

    Why it works: Written from a wife to her husband, this poem celebrates a love valued above material wealth and expresses the hope that their devotion will endure throughout their lives. Its direct connection to marriage makes it especially fitting for a wedding ceremony.

    If ever two were one, then surely we.

    If ever man were lov’d by wife, then thee.

    If ever wife was happy in a man,
    Compare with me, ye women, if you can.

    I prize thy love more than whole Mines of gold
    Or all the riches that the East doth hold.

    My love is such that Rivers cannot quench,
    Nor ought but love from thee give recompense.

    Thy love is such I can no way repay.
    The heavens reward thee manifold, I pray.

    Then while we live, in love let’s so persevere
    That when we live no more, we may live ever.

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    Modern and contemporary wedding readings

    Union, by Robert Fulghum

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    A simple and meaningful reflection on marriage

    Best for: Couples looking for a warm, accessible reading about the meaning of marriage and the commitment they are making.

    Why it works: Fulghum reflects on marriage not simply as a single moment at the altar, but as the culmination of promises, choices and experiences that have already brought two people to their wedding day.

    If this description speaks to you, consider reading Union by Robert Fulghum and deciding whether it fits the tone and meaning of your ceremony.

    A Life Built Together

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    An original wedding reading from Our Wedding Guide

    Best for: Couples who see marriage as a partnership built on mutual support, growth, and shared responsibility.

    Why it works: This reading focuses on the everyday reality of marriage—the small, meaningful choices that build a life together over time. It feels grounded, sincere, and easy to connect with.

    A strong relationship is not built in a single moment.
    It is built in the quiet decisions made every day.

    It is found in the way you listen when the other speaks,
    in the way you show up when it matters,
    and in the way you choose each other—again and again.

    Marriage is not about perfection.
    It is about commitment.

    It is about learning, growing, and moving forward together,
    even when the path is not always clear.

    Today is not just a celebration of where you are,
    but a promise of how you will continue—
    side by side,
    building a life that reflects who you are together.

    The Meaning of Love in Everyday Life

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    An original wedding reading from Our Wedding Guide

    Best for: Couples who want a reading that feels natural, relatable, and rooted in real life rather than idealized romance.

    Why it works: This reading celebrates the practical, everyday side of love—the routines, conversations, patience, understanding, and small acts of care that gradually build a life together.

    Love is not only found in the big moments—
    the celebrations, the milestones, the days like today.

    It is found in the ordinary.

    In shared routines.
    In quiet conversations.
    In the small acts of care that often go unnoticed.

    It is in the patience you show one another,
    the understanding you offer,
    and the support you give without being asked.

    Over time, these small moments become something greater—
    a foundation built on trust, respect, and shared experience.

    And it is from this foundation
    that a lasting and meaningful life together is created.

    Choosing Each Other

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    An original wedding reading from Our Wedding Guide

    Best for: Couples who want to emphasize that lasting love is an ongoing choice, not simply a feeling.

    Why it works: This reading presents commitment as something couples continue to choose throughout their life together—to be present, patient, understanding, and willing to grow through both the expected and unexpected.

    Love begins in a moment,
    but it is sustained through choice.

    A choice to be present.
    A choice to be patient.
    A choice to understand, even when it is difficult.

    Today, you are not only celebrating love—
    you are choosing it.

    You are choosing to stand together
    in both the expected and the unknown.

    You are choosing to grow,
    to adapt,
    and to remain connected through whatever life may bring.

    And in that choice, made day after day,
    your love will continue to deepen and endure.

    Spiritual, religious and scripture wedding readings

    Wedding readings can express the deeper meaning of love and commitment in many different ways. Some couples are drawn to spiritual reflections about connection, gratitude, purpose, and the shared journey of marriage. Others want their ceremony to reflect a particular religious faith or tradition.

    The selections below include spiritual writings, prayers, and Scripture. Choose words that reflect your beliefs and your relationship, and the meaning you want your ceremony to have. Different faith traditions approach marriage in different ways, so choose a reading that feels natural in your ceremony.

    On Marriage, by Kahlil Gibran

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    A reflection on togetherness, individuality, and lasting love

    Best for: Couples who want a thoughtful reading about remaining connected while also allowing each person room to grow and remain an individual.

    Why it works: Gibran presents marriage as a balance between closeness and independence. His imagery encourages couples to share their lives and love deeply while recognizing that a strong relationship does not require two people to lose their individuality.

    You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.

    You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
    Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.

    But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
    And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
    Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
    Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
    Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.

    Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf
    Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
    Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

    Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
    For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
    And stand together yet not too near together:
    For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
    And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.

    Prayer of Saint Francis

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    A prayer for love, peace, understanding, and selfless commitment

    Best for: Couples who want a distinctly Christian reading or prayer that emphasizes compassion, forgiveness, understanding, and giving to one another.

    Why it works: Although it was not written specifically for marriage, this prayer expresses qualities that can strengthen a life together. Its call to seek understanding rather than simply being understood, and to love rather than simply seeking to be loved, gives it particular meaning in a wedding ceremony.

    Lord, make us instruments of your peace.

    Where there is hated, let us sow love;
    Where there is injury, pardon;
    Where there is discord, union;
    Where there is doubt, faith;
    Where there is despair, hope;
    Where there is darkness, light;
    Where there is sadness, joy;

    O Divine Master, Grant that we may not so much seek
    To be consoled as to console,
    To be understood as to understand,
    To be loved as to love.

    For it is in giving that we receive;
    It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
    And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
    Amen.

    1 Corinthians 13: Love Is Patient, Love Is Kind

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    A timeless reflection on the nature of love

    Best for: Couples who want a familiar Scripture reading that describes the qualities of enduring love.

    Why it works: Rather than describing love simply as an emotion, this passage speaks about how love is lived—with patience, kindness, humility, perseverance, and hope. That makes it especially meaningful in the context of the commitment two people make in marriage.

    If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

    Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.

    Two Are Better Than One: Ecclesiastes 4

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    A reflection on partnership, support, and strength together

    Best for: Couples who want a faith-based reading that emphasizes companionship, mutual support, and the strength found in facing life together.

    Why it works: This passage offers a simple and powerful picture of partnership: when one person falls, the other can help them up, and together they are stronger than either would be alone.

    The closing image of a “threefold cord” has also become meaningful in many Christian wedding ceremonies, where it is sometimes interpreted as representing the couple and God joined together in their marriage.

    Two are better than one;
    because they have a good reward for their labour.

    For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow:
    but woe to him that is alone when he falleth;
    for he hath not another to help him up.

    Again, if two lie together, then they have heat:
    but how can one be warm alone?

    And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him;
    and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

    Additional Scripture readings for a wedding ceremony

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    For couples who want a more explicitly faith-centered ceremony, there are many more passages that can be meaningful in a wedding service. Some speak directly about love and marriage. Others focus on faith, wisdom, joy, companionship, praise, and the qualities that help sustain a life together. These give you more options as a couple or an officiant.

    There shall once more be heard the voice of mirth and the voice of gladness, the voice of the bridegroom and the voice of the bride, the voices of those who sing.

    Jeremiah 33:10-11, New Revised Standard Version

    The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to live alone. I need to make a suitable companion to help him.” Then he took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. The man exclaimed: “This at last is bone from my bones, and flesh from my flesh! Woman is her name.” That is why a man leaves his own father and mother and joins himself to his wife, and they become one body.

    Genesis 2:18, 22-24, The Jerusalem Bible / The Revised Standard Version

    Give thanks to the Lord of hosts, for the Lord is good, for his steadfast love endures forever!

    Jeremiah 33:11, New Revised Standard Version

    Praise the Lord! Praise God in his sanctuary; praise him in his mighty firmament! Praise him for his mighty deeds; praise him according to his surpassing greatness! Praise him with trumpet sound; praise him with lute and harp! Praise him with tambourine and dance; praise him with strings and pipe! Praise him with clanging cymbals; praise him with loud clashing cymbals! Let everything that breathes praise the Lord! Praise ye the Lord!

    Psalm 150, New Revised Standard Version

    Those who are hot-tempered stir up strife, but those who are slow to anger calm contention. The way of the lazy is overgrown with thorns, but the path of the upright is a level highway. A wise child makes a glad father, but the foolish despise their mothers. Folly is a joy to one who has no sense, but a person of understanding walks straight ahead. Without counsel, plans go wrong, but with many advisers they succeed. To make an apt answer is a joy to anyone, and a word in season, how good it is! For the wise the path of life leads upward.

    Proverbs 15:18-24, New Revised Standard Version

    Everyone then who hears these words of mine and acts on them will be like a wise man who built his house on rock. The rain fell, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on rock.

    Matthew 7:24-25, New Revised Standard Version

    Praise ye the Lord. Praise ye the Lord from the heavens: praise him in the heights. Praise ye him, all his angels: praise ye him, all his hosts.

    Praise ye him, sun and moon: praise him, all ye stars of light. Praise him, ye heavens of heavens, and ye waters that be above the heavens. Let them praise the name of the Lord: for he commanded, and they were created. He hath also stablished them for ever and ever: he hath made a decree which shall not pass.

    Mountains, and all hills; fruitful trees, and all cedars: Beasts, and all cattle; creeping things, and flying fowl: Kings of the earth, and all people; princes, and all judges of the earth: Both young men, and maidens; old men, and children: Let them praise the name of the Lord: for his name alone is excellent; his glory is above the earth and heaven. Praise ye the Lord.

    Psalm 148, King James Version

    I come to my garden, my sister, my bride; I gather my myrrh with my spice, I eat my honeycomb with my honey, I drink my wine with my milk. Eat, friends, drink, and be drunk with love.

    Song of Solomon 5:1, New Revised Standard Version

    I am my beloved’s, and his desire is for me. Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the fields, and lodge in the villages; let us go out early to the vineyards, and see whether the vines have budded, whether the grape blossoms have opened and the pomegranates are in bloom. There I will give you my love.

    Song of Solomon 7:10-12, Jerusalem Bible

    Proverbs 31

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    Who can find a virtuous woman?

    For her price is far above rubies.
    The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her,
    So that he shall have no need of spoil.
    She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
    Strength and honour are her clothing;
    And she shall rejoice in time to come.
    She openeth her mouth with wisdom;
    And in her tongue is the law of kindness.
    She looketh well to the ways of her household,
    And eateth not the bread of idleness.
    Her children arise up, and call her blessed;
    Her husband also, and he praiseth her.
    Many daughters have done virtuously,
    But thou excellest them all.
    Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain:
    But a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
    Give her of the fruit of her hands;
    And let her own works praise her in the gates.

    Proverbs 31, King James Version

    A capable wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will never be poor.

    Proverbs 31:10-12, New Revised Standard Version

    What matters most is that when the words are spoken, they feel like they belong there, and that they feel like you.

    Choosing words that feel right for your ceremony

    There is no single reading that belongs in every wedding ceremony. The right choice reflects something meaningful about your relationship, your beliefs, or the commitment you are making.

    You may choose a familiar poem or passage, something rooted in your faith, or words your guests have never heard at a wedding before. What matters most is that when the words are spoken, they feel like they belong there, and that they feel like you.

    Once you have chosen your reading, think about how it fits with the other words spoken in your ceremony.

    See wedding vows examples and wording for the promises you will make, and the complete wedding ceremony script guide to bring all the pieces of your ceremony together in a natural, meaningful order.