Printables and Planners

Planning a wedding is a lot of decisions. These printables and planners are the ones we made to help with the parts couples tell us are hardest: the budget, the guest list, the ceremony words, the toasts and the timeline.

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For the ceremony

Your ceremony is the heart of the day. These four help you plan the moments, find the right words, and get your officiant ready.

New · Printable PDF guidebook

The Officiant's Toolkit

For the friend or family member you've asked to officiate: the legal side, interview questions, a 16-part ceremony builder, three complete scripts, where everyone stands, the rehearsal and the day, with my own stories. 69 printable pages.

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Printable PDF guidebook

Woven Together: 24 Ways to Include Family and Friends

Ceremony rituals your guests take part in, tables they stop at on the way in, and small gifts that go home in a pocket. Each idea has what you’ll need, how to set it up, and wording for signs and for your officiant, plus a story or tip from me. 37 printable pages.

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Printable workbook

The Wedding Ceremony Words Workbook

A 45-page guide that turns your story, values, vows and ideas into meaningful ceremony language, with a Ceremony Profile you can share with your officiant.

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Printable workbook

Create Your Wedding Charge

A 6-page printable workbook that guides you through 5 simple steps to identify the message, tone, values, and personal details you want your officiant to include. Complete it together in about 15 to 20 minutes, then give the final summary page to your officiant.

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For the reception

Printable PDF kit

Wedding Toast Starter Kit

Fill-in-the-blank toasts for the best man, maid of honor, parents, family and the couple, plus a five-part plan, a finished sample, short toasts, wishes to end with and a toast-day checklist. 17 printable pages.

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For the planning

Printable PDF kit

Wedding Planning Timeline & Checklist

A month-by-month checklist from the day you say yes to the day after the wedding, with a key dates tracker, a budget reminder and notes on every page. 16 printable pages.

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Google Sheets template

Wedding Budget Planner

Organize every wedding expense, track deposits and final payments, compare estimated and actual costs, and see what is left at a glance.

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Google Sheets template

Wedding Guest List Planner & Tracker

Organize your guests, monitor RSVPs, and stay aligned with your budget throughout the entire planning process. Instant download: access your planner in minutes.

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Books for the two of you

Paperback and hardcover

Your First Year of Marriage: Twelve Notes for the Year Ahead

One short note for each month of the first year, with things to try together, questions to talk over and pages to write in. A gift for weddings, showers and engagements. The PDF is still free on our site.

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Book

Planning Your Wedding, Building Your Marriage

A guide for engaged couples that connects budgeting to your values and shared decision-making.

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