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From a florist's son

Keeping Your Bouquet After the Wedding

A fresh bridal bouquet tied with ribbon beside the same flowers pressed and framed

A lot of brides now want to keep their bouquet instead of letting it wilt on the hotel dresser. Some have it pressed and framed. Others have it dried, or even set in resin as a keepsake.

I grew up in my mom's flower shop, and weddings were her specialty. I watched a lot of bridal bouquets go out that door. So I'll admit this trend warms my heart. Those flowers were chosen with care, and they deserve better than the trash bin.

A bridal bouquet of pink and cream roses, calla lilies and eucalyptus

If you want to save yours, plan ahead

  • Decide before the wedding. Preservation works best when the flowers go to the preserver within a few days.
  • Pick someone to handle it. You'll be busy, so ask your mom or a bridesmaid to take charge of the bouquet that night.
  • Ask your florist. Some flowers dry beautifully, and others turn brown. A good florist can steer you.
  • Don't toss the real one. If you want a bouquet toss, order a small, inexpensive second bouquet for it.

Twenty years from now, you'll be glad you kept it.

Still choosing your flowers? Start with my five essential tips for wedding flowers.

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